Thursday, August 31, 2017

August Pictures

Fun at the park:

 


P1 telling stories and singing songs:



Relaxing in the hammock. Everyone likes the hammock in the house except mom.



A lovely start to my day! I had an OB appointment at 9 am and I took the kids with me since they had a dentist appointment afterwards. I was stopped at a red light when a truck pulls up beside me (in the left-turning lane), and I hear an awful sound. In shock, I realize that this truck just took off my mirror. The light was still red and while still in shock I was trying to figure out what to do. My first thought was to write down the license plate, but I didn't have anything handy. So then I try to memorize the plate. The light turns green, and I realize that I need to follow him. So I follow the truck thinking he will pull over. He doesn't, so I start honking and signaling for him to pull over. I followed him through 3 turns before he finally pulled over. I get out and march over to the truck (it is a company vehicle). At this point I wonder if I am doing the right thing or not, because I have no idea who is in this truck. The guy was very quiet and obviously didn't know what to do. I told him that he took off my mirror and I need his insurance card. I got a picture of the insurance card, and a picture of his license plate, and then I hurried off to my doctor's appointment. Somehow I managed to be somewhat on time. PE called the company who owned the truck, and they were really good to pay for everything. But it was still a pain to deal with. I am glad that I chased the guy down though, otherwise it would have cost us $450, ouch!



P1 and P2 both did great at the dentist. No tears!



We decided to go out for a treat, and P2 declared that we should get ice cream cones. Thanks McDonalds for your $0.59 ice cream cones!


 


We made a trip out to the Lego store and P1 spent the whole time building with Duplos. Other kids like to run around and look at all the sets. And they also beg their parents to buy something. But P1 and P2 are just content to build. Maybe that means we have too many Legos at our house.

Wednesday, August 30, 2017

Fixing the House

We have a beam in our house that was built very poorly. We've seen a lot of cracking, and the sheet rock on the bottom was beginning to separate. PE did some calculations (he is after all, a licensed PE), talked to the structural guy at work, and made a plan. He was able to fix it for a lot less than we thought it would cost. It did take up an entire Saturday though. And it was very loud and noisy. Normally I like how small our house is, but that day I wished we had a basement to escape into. Oh, the adventures of home ownership!





Wednesday, August 23, 2017

Solar Eclipse

We did not travel to see the total solar eclipse. Mostly because we don't like crowds or traffic. Also because I didn't want to be stuck on the freeway and go into labor. I didn't even bother getting glasses, but my mom picked up some extra ones for us. So we went outside to look for a little bit. After 30 seconds, the kids were done and P1 wanted to go back inside. I said that we were going to stay outside for a little longer, and he got really whiny. But then, P1's friend Audrey saw us across the street and asked P1 if he was watching the sun. And she kept saying how cool and amazing it was. So P1 decided that maybe it was cool. And then when I tried to take them back inside later, he cried and said that he still wanted to watch it. The power of a girl's influence.

It was neat how much cooler it was during the eclipse. I guess it dropped 22 degrees where there was totality. It was a nice cool day for us, and the cement wasn't hot like it normally is that time of day.




Friday, August 4, 2017

Pregnancy and Colitis

I have a lot of blog catching-up to do! The main reason is because this pregnancy has been rough!

I mentioned in an earlier post that I had hemorrhoid bleeding start at about 12 weeks (February) into the pregnancy. Well, the bleeding just kept getting worse and by mid-May I knew that it was not hemorrhoids, but that my colitis was flaring. This also happened to be around the time we were celebrating our 9 year anniversary. A colitis flare does not make for fun celebrations. We went to a movie Station Park (Guardian of the Galaxy if I remember right) and ate dinner at the ParkStone Wood Kitchen. We ended up getting a slice of cheesecake at the restaurant, and as I was eating it I knew that I needed to start up a limited diet again and this would be my last sugar for a while.

I started my SCD diet again, basically meaning no grains, refined sugars, starches, and lactose. That helped me a bit, but not as much as I had hoped. So about mid-June I started the AutoImmune Protocol (AIP) elimination diet. This one is even more strict and takes out all grains, all dairy, refined sugars, nuts, nightshade vegetables (like tomatoes, peppers), and eggs. Eggs were hard to give up. On the SCD diet, eggs are allowed and that is what I would usually eat for breakfast. With the AIP diet you take out all potential inflammatory foods for 30-60 days, and then SLOWLY add things back in to see if you react to them. It takes about 1 week to introduce each new thing. So far I have only added eggs and peanut butter. With the eggs, I had to try the yolks first for a week and then try the egg whites. It is such a slow process!!! But hopefully worth it to know what foods trigger my colitis.

I have had a hard time gaining weight during the second trimester and the diet hasn't helped with that. But at least the baby is growing right on track! I always carry small, but this is the smallest I've been during the third trimester. People don't believe I am 35 weeks along. I really don't mind the comments, but I often am not sure how to respond to them. "Thanks, but I'm actually trying really hard to gain weight"?
34 Weeks 

All the bleeding that I had also caused me to be anemic this pregnancy. My hematocrit numbers kept dropping, and I have never been so fatigued. Just walking across a room would exhaust me. Oral iron supplements were not doing anything, so finally I had to get an iron infusion the end of June. I had just had a Remicade infusion and the place I get infusions was discontinuing that service in July. So, I had already said bye to all the nurses and staff that I regularly saw. And then I came back 4 times the very last week they were still doing infusions (the iron infusion takes 4 days). I told them that I just had so much fun there that I needed to come back. All joking aside, it was a tender mercy that I was able to do the infusion there the very last week that they were doing infusions. Otherwise, I would have had to drive to Murray or Layton for those 4 days of infusions.

I thought the iron infusions would be easy. My doctor had said that they only took half an hour, which is much faster than my 3+ hour Remicade infusion. So, I took my kids with me the first time because P2 had a doctor's appointment later in the same building. Well, we got there at 9 am, and didn't finish until 11:30 am. And P2's appointment was at 10:30. Fortunately, her doctor was still willing to see her at 11:30. And all the nurses commented on how well-behaved P1 and P2 were. Of course, it helped that they had Netflix to watch at the infusion center.

Kids enjoying Netflix at the infusion center

1st Iron Infusion

Turns out, iron is really hard on your veins. They left the IV in each day, but when they would try to start up the infusion the next day, my arm would burn and swell. So 3 out of the 4 days required a new IV. I finished the iron infusion over 5 weeks ago, and I still have a giant bruise on my arm from it! But, it was worth it! I started feeling much better after the infusion, and finally had energy again. My hematocrit numbers went from 8.9 to 12.4, which is a huge jump! And 12 is the magical number you want to be over.
Battle wounds from iron infusions (29 weeks)

I've been working with my GI doctor over the last 8 weeks or so. I really wanted to avoid being on any type of steroid during this pregnancy, but that was basically the only option I had left. My doctor finally convinced me that my current health was putting my baby more at risk than the steroids would. I really didn't want to do prednisone again, so we tried Uceris. Unfortunately, that didn't help at all. I thought my only option left was the dreaded prednisone, but at my appointment, my doctor suddenly remembered that I have left-sided colitis. After checking my colonoscopy records, he said that a steroid enema should be able to reach all the inflammation and the baby would have minimal exposure. An answer to prayers! Thankfully, this treatment helped immensely! I felt 95% better after two weeks, and after another couple of weeks I felt 100% better. Hallelujah! Negative side effects of the medicine have been being wide awake at 4:30 in the morning, but hey, I'll take it!

The last month has been really good. I had a lot of energy, so I got a lot of projects done around the house. I'm starting to slow down again just because of the pregnancy. Baby is getting heavier and I've been having a lot of Braxton Hicks. Only 5 more weeks until baby!!!

Ultrasound at 31 weeks

Living in Debt with Our Time

Prophets have repeatedly taught us to stay out of debt with our money. Debt is a form of bondage, and interest has no mercy. Money (for most of us) is a limited resource and we get to choose how to spend it. However, once we are in debt, our ability to choose how to spend our money is diminished because it is already promised to someone else.

Time is another limited resource we all have. We each only have 24 hours a day to choose how to spend. As I do the daily, monotonous tasks demanded of me has a mother and homemaker, I have realized that some days I live in debt with my time.

For example, when I choose to not wash the dishes after a meal then I am choosing to not pay the time now in exchange for paying more time later. The interest is that the longer I wait, the more time it takes to wash the dishes due to the crusted on food. Also, payment often comes due at inconvenient times. Like dinner time when I need the dishes that are still dirty, and I don't have the time to clean them.

When I choose not to fold and put away fresh laundry, then I am agreeing to pay more time later. The interest in this case is wrinkled clothes that need extra attention.

Now, there will always be times when something important needs your time and you can't get to the dishes or laundry right away. The prophets have said that reasonable debt is okay for important things like buying a home and paying for your education. I would say the same is true for your time. Meaning, it's okay to put off the dishes when your child needs you, but maybe you shouldn't put it off for Netflix.

I have noticed that I feel happier and more in control of my time when I am not always putting things off to do later. I am far from perfect at it, but I have found it helpful to consider this question throughout the day:

"Am I living in debt with my time?"

Try it out and see what you think!