Tender Moment

So P1 has been rather fussy the last few days, I blame teething. Yesterday afternoon/evening were especially bad, I was really tired of the constant whining over everything. This morning wasn't much better, but I had regained some of my patience over night. Finally P1 was content doing something, so I pulled out my Kindle to do my daily scripture study. As I was finishing up, P1 came over wanting to play with the Kindle, so I showed it to him and said "I'm reading my scriptures, I'm reading about Jesus." P1 looks at me, and then goes over to the bookcase and pulls out the Nursery manual, and the Gospel Art Book. He brings them over to the couch and proceeds to look at pictures of Jesus while I finish reading. After I finished, we spent some more time looking at the pictures and singing some Primary songs. Such a sweet little boy. He continually surprises me with his level of understanding.

Growing Up

P1 is growing up so quickly. He really is the sweetest little boy.

Enjoying his first whole chocolate chip cookie, what a mess!

P1 loves the bunnies, and is always laughing at them:

P1 is still the resident chef. He is ALWAYS cooking something:

He loves to pull food out of the cabinet, and I was very impressed with his tower building the other day. He also loves milk, I'm pretty sure he drinks a gallon or two all by himself each week. 

P1 thinks he's a big kid now. He always wants to climb up and down the stairs like an adult, not like a baby. He learned how to pull himself up on chairs, and likes to sit at the table like a big kid. While I was out of sight for a minute, he climbed on the computer chair, printed something off, and pulled all the paper out of the printer! And yesterday he pulled out PE's dress shoes and wanted to wear them. He was quite upset that he couldn't walk in them though. 

P1 loves water, and sometimes will drink and spit water out just to get wet. Silly boy!

  We taught P1 how to give kisses, and it is pretty adorable. Some of them can be pretty wet kisses though. Oh, and it's super funny to watch P1 dance.

Oh no, he spotted the camera!

Project #2

Well, in case you really missed it, we are expecting baby #2 this summer. My due date is June 30, and I am predicting a 4th of July baby. P1 and P2 will be 20 months apart. We are excited for P1 to have a sibling even though I don't think he will be too thrilled about it at first. P1 usually gets upset when I hold other babies, but he is getting a little better about it.

We found out November 9 that I was pregnant. Morning sickness started at week 6 (2 weeks earlier than with P1). The first day I started feeling sick, all the memories of going through it the first time came back and I thought "Oh no, what have I gotten myself into!" I really hate morning sickness. For me it is the hardest part about pregnancy.

At week 8, I had a doctor's appointment, and was able to get a free sample of some medicine for morning sickness. The medicine was a life saver, and it was a tender mercy that I was able to get such a large sample for free. I later had to get a prescription for it, and learned that my free sample would have cost about $500 without insurance. I would say the medicine helped with about 90% of my morning sickness.

Week 8:

We were going to wait and tell family for Christmas, but PE wanted to announce it in our Christmas card. We told our families about a week before Christmas, and then sent out our Christmas cards to let everybody else know.

Week 12:

Morning sickness started abating around week 18 (2 weeks later than with P1). I was off my medicine by week 20. Making for about 14 weeks of morning sickness misery! So glad it's over!!!

We had our 20 week ultrasound this week, and DID NOT find out gender! With P1, the technician totally gave it away even though we didn't want to know. But this time we made it through without any slip-ups! We didn't really get a good profile of the baby, but it was still fun to see the baby. And everything looks good!

Week 20:

15 Months

My little boy eating at his first Japanese restaurant for Grandpa's birthday. His favorite food was the tempura dipping sauce which he wanted to eat like a soup.

Fun at the local library: 

Fun at the doctor's office (before he realizes he has to see the doctor):

P1 did not have fun at his 15 month check-up. He cried whenever the nurse or doctor were in the room. But as long as they were gone, he enjoyed playing on the little chairs. P1 is 31.5 inches long (61st percentile) and weighs 23 lbs 3 oz (29th percentile).

Words of a Prophet

I came across these words from President Spencer W. Kimball today. These words were spoken by a Prophet of God 36 years ago, and I believe they apply today more than ever.

“The growing permissiveness in modern society gravely concerns us. Certainly our Heavenly Father is distressed with the increasing inroads among his children of such insidious sins as adultery and fornication, homosexuality, lesbianism, abortions, pornography, population control, alcoholism, cruelty expressed in wife-beating and child-abuse, dishonesty, vandalism, violence, and crime generally, including the sin of living together without marriage. 

“We call upon our Church members everywhere to renew their efforts to strengthen the home and to honor their parents, and to build better communications between parent and child. 

“Important as it is, building stronger homes is not enough in the fight against rising permissiveness. We therefore urge Church members as citizens to lift their voices, to join others in unceasingly combating, in their communities and beyond, the inroads of pornography and the general flaunting of permissiveness. Let us vigorously oppose the shocking developments which encourage the old sins of Sodom and Gomorrah, and which defile the human body as the temple of God. 

To our beloved brethren and sisters everywhere, as well as to all peoples of the world who love the Lord and desire to live in harmony with the teachings of the gospel of Jesus Christ, we say no people can remain strong and happy who condone these loose standards of morality. 

While we cannot tolerate sin and we exercise Church discipline against those who do sin, we must help the transgressor, with love and understanding, to work his or her way back to full fellowship in the Church. Let us help each toward the blessing of a lasting repentance, a resolute turning away from error... 

“God will not be mocked. His laws are immutable. True repentance is rewarded by forgiveness, but sin brings the sting of death. … 

“As we think back upon the experiences of Nineveh, Babylon, Sodom and Gomorrah, we wonder—will history repeat itself? What of our world today? Are we forgetting in our great nations the high and lofty principles which can preserve the nations? … 

“… There are among us those same vices which we have seen wreck empires, and we see them becoming flagrant in all nations. Shall we, like Belshazzar, sow the wind and reap the whirlwind? Shall we permit the home to deteriorate and marriage to become a mockery? Shall we continue to curse God, hate our enemies, and defile our bodies in adulterous and sensuous practices? And when the patience of the Lord with us is exhausted, shall we stand trembling while destruction comes upon us? Or shall we wisely see the handwriting on the wall and profit by the sad experience of the past and return unto the Lord and serve him?”  

President Spencer W. Kimball, Oct. 1977 General Conference

What really hit me, is that it is not enough for us to teach our children what is right and wrong. We have to raise our voice as citizens to combat the rising permissiveness in the world. The scriptures are full of accounts of nations that have fallen because they forgot God and walked after their own ways. Even Jerusalem, that housed the temple of God, fell to the Babylonians because they had turned away from God. If we truly love our neighbors, communities, and country, then I believe we have to raise our voice in warning.

Future Chef

P1 is going to be a chef one day. He loves to pretend cook. He makes soup all day long, and loves to let you try it! Yesterday, he kept disappearing in my bedroom with his duplos. Turns out he was making Lego soup in our laundry hamper. I guess it works as a giant stockpot.

Here, try some, it's delicious!

I want to get him one of these toy kitchens from IKEA. Because P1 loves cooking, he is always underfoot when I try to cook in the kitchen. And while it is cute that he wants to help, sometimes it is a bit too much. Especially when he keeps whining because he wants you to hold him up while you cook. So maybe it would help if he had his own place to cook.

Affordable Care Act

Dear Affordable Care Act,

Thank you for making healthcare unaffordable. It is a Saturday, and I believe that my husband and I have strep throat. Because it is a weekend, we would have to go to an Urgent Care facility to see a doctor and get medicine. If it was still 2013, we would do that. But it is 2014, and we no longer have the same health plan because it no longer exists. It used to cost us only a small copay to go to urgent care, and a small copay for prescriptions. Now we have to pay for everything until we hit our deductible. Our new deductible is 5.6 times greater than our previous deductible. And after we hit our deductible, we still have to pay 20%. Even for prescriptions, we have to pay the full cost until we hit our deductible. And our new, unimproved, healthcare plan is 22% more expensive to pay for than our previous plan. We are with the same employer, the only thing that changed was you. You happened, and suddenly our previous healthcare plan was no longer an option.

Once again, thank you for making healthcare unaffordable for those who pay for a healthcare plan and are in need of medical attention.

Sincerely,
A Concerned, Contagious Citizen